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Therapy

FACE-TO-FACE & one-to-one psychological therapy FOR people aged 18 & over, IN EXETER


Are you interested in therapy, but not sure where to start?

I understand that taking the first step into therapy can be daunting & confusing. - Let’s explore the different options that I offer to see what might work best for you


Psychological therapy can be a key to improving your mental health. My training & experience mean that I can offer a range of proven psychological ‘talking therapies’ along with other evidence-based psychological methods. There’s no ‘one size fits all’ approach with me - I provide a bespoke service tailored to your unique situation.

If you are finding aspects of life challenging due to living with a health condition or you are supporting a loved one living with a health condition, I may be able to support you. My training also means I can support people with a range of other mental health struggles or people who are generally seeking to bolster their emotional well-being, balance & resilience in the face of life’s challenges.

Individual therapy sessions provide a safe, confidential & non-judgemental time to talk together about any experiences you might be having that you are finding difficult to manage. I aim to help you to overcome emotional challenges & to unlock new ways of coping.

When trauma, anxiety, physical health or pain rule your world, therapy can help to reconnect you to your deepest self & to the things that matter to you. Together, we can work towards finding a way through your difficulties so that you, rather than your symptoms, are running your life.

How can therapy help?

 

 

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Resolving the hurts of the PAST

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Finding ways through the pain in the PRESENT

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Connecting to your strengths & your path for the FUTURE

 
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MEET YOUR THERAPIST

 
 

Hi, I’m Rebecca,

It's important to find a therapist that you can open up to, who understands where you're coming from & helps you to feel safe & supported. Finding someone that you feel comfortable talking to can make a world of difference in your therapy experience. A good therapeutic relationship is really important: In fact, studies tell us that the best predictor of successful therapy is a great connection between therapist & client.

I understand that opening up to someone you don’t know can feel strange & aim to help you do this at a pace that works for you. I’ll seek to put you at ease & assure you that you only have to talk about what you want to talk about - but the more you're able to share, the easier it will be to find out what will work best for you. Although it’s normal to feel anxious about this first phase, many people find that it can feel therapeutic in itself to feel heard & understood. Find more information about what to expect at a first appointment here.

So, what are the steps in therapy?


 
 

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Free initial 20-minute online meeting

I offer a free no-obligation 20 minute Zoom meeting to discuss your needs and what you are hoping for from therapy. It’s also a chance for us to see if we are a good ‘fit’ to work together, and a chance for you to ask questions about the service I offer.

 

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Your initial assessment session

If we agree to proceed following your free consultation, I’ll then invite you to make an appointment with me for an initial assessment. The aim of this is to understand more about you, your situation & your concerns so that we can decide on the best way forward & you can be informed to make decisions about your therapy. It normally involves one or two meetings.

We’ll talk in more detail about:

  • the reasons that you have come to therapy

  • the impact of your difficulties,

  • what may be contributing to your difficulties

  • how you are currently managing

  • your life experiences

  • how you feel, think & behave.

  • any therapy you have had previously

  • & what has been helpful - or unhelpful in the past.

Once we have some shared sense of your difficulties, we can talk about the options for the next steps. I will aim to share my recommendations on which therapy approach might best suit your needs & preferences. I’ll seek to give you the information you need to decide whether you want to go forward with ongoing therapy sessions with me.

If I believe that psychological therapy with me would not be helpful, I will advise you on alternative sources of help, where possible.

 

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Your ongoing therapy sessions

In this next stage, we’ll work towards your agreed therapy goals over a series of sessions. The nature of the therapy sessions will depend on the approach that we have agreed on together. The focus will vary according to your needs:

  • It might be on finding new ways of managing the difficulties that you are facing in the present or the future.

  • Or it might work on resolving distress from your past.

Private therapy sessions normally last for one hour & typically take place once a week for several months, or longer.

The length of the treatment will depend on the severity of the problem. This is something we will review at regular intervals to ensure that you are making the progress you would like to make, & to ensure that therapy is still helpful for you.

When it comes to ending, we’ll plan the ending of your sessions carefully together so that the process of finishing our work can be helpful to you.


What can therapy involve?

There can be many aspects to therapy, with different approaches emphasising some of these elements more than others:

  • Sharing your feelings & processing them in a safe & supportive relationship. Feeling heard & understood by your therapist.

  • Gaining deeper insight into the issues you face.

  • Learning more about your condition & gaining an understanding of why you may be experiencing ongoing pain &/or emotional difficulties.

  • Discovering more about your nervous system & mind-body links to be able to work with these in helpful ways.

  • Finding new skills & strategies to manage your feelings, thoughts, behaviour & physical difficulties.

  • Practicing breathing, relaxation, basic mindfulness meditation & imagery exercises.

  • Building your compassion, care & connection with yourself & your world.

  • Changing underlying patterns of beliefs & habits that keep you stuck.

  • Working through upsetting memories & feelings & beginning to ‘heal’ from trauma

  • Helping you restore yourself by exploring different facets of who you are & what you value.

  • Supporting you to find direction & reengage with meaningful activities in your life.

  • Practicing your new learning, skills & insights between sessions.

 
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I provide a range of therapies:


 
 

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Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

Promotes mental health by helping you to develop the skills & attributes of compassion. CFT is especially useful for those who criticise themselves heavily or struggle with shame. Learning to quiet your inner critic & better understand your struggles aims for you to develop a balance of warmth, care & kindness towards yourself & others. This approach helps you manage tricky emotions and builds your courage & capacity to face life’s challenges.

 

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Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Offers a range of strategies to help you to find ways of being with any difficult thoughts, feelings, symptoms, or experiences that you cannot change. It also encourages increased commitment to activities that enable you to live a meaningful life that you value. This includes approaches such as Mindfulness.

 

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Schema Therapy

Combines several psychotherapy techniques used in some depth. The focus is on getting to the root of problems & changing any unhelpful patterns of beliefs, emotions & behaviours underpinning current problems. This approach helps address unmet needs & difficult beliefs about yourself. This can include working through the effects of trauma.

 

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Trauma Therapy

Trauma-focused cognitive behavioural therapy, is a form of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) specifically adapted for post-traumatic stress problems. It is often combined with Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

 

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Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

CBT is based on the idea that how we think about experiences, bodily sensations & situations can affect the way we feel & behave. Emphasis is on changing thoughts & behaviours to change how you are feeling emotionally & physically.

 

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Integrative Therapy

Involves the combination of elements of other therapies & proven treatments to produce a bespoke & personalised treatment plan built around you.

I’m here to help you understand the options & discuss which therapy approach & service bests suit your needs & preferences

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I offer face-to-face appointments in two different clinic locations in central Exeter, UK


FAQS

 

Get Started

I offer a free, introductory, 20-minute online meeting to discuss your needs, & answer any questions you may have. It’s also a chance for us to see if we are a good ‘fit’ to work together.